I have been a Democrat for the majority of my life because, well, that's what you do when you want to fight the Republican Party. But I want this generation to do more than just fight. I want them to thrive.
The Democratic Party has done a good job of creating the illusion that it is on the side of justice. And to be fair, at the grassroots level, local organizers and everyday Democrats have done tremendous work. But we cannot keep romanticizing the narcissist who throws us breadcrumbs, gets jealous when we want to improve ourselves, financially withholds support, and cries when we finally call out the abuse.
Let's look at those breadcrumbs.
Cory Booker's filibuster, which many of us viewed as a symbolic gesture that ultimately accomplished little. Our desire to improve the party by supporting candidates like Bernie Sanders, only to be told we had to fall in line behind Hillary Clinton. Or the resistance and lack of support faced by candidates like Zohran Mamdani, the mayor of New York City. And let's not forget the financial manipulation: withholding money and resources from candidates we actually want to see win while expecting us to continue funding the same establishment.
But this narcissistic relationship goes much deeper.
We know something is wrong. We know that the Democratic Party, particularly at the national leadership level, has repeatedly failed to put working Americans first. We see the influence of corporate interests, Big Pharma, defense contractors, private military companies like Blackwater, and the pro-Israel lobby. Put your money behind the right interests, and you can gain access, influence, and political support.
We watch politicians trade their principles for political and financial gain. We watch our resources disappear while ordinary Americans struggle. But perhaps one of the most painful things to witness has been the willingness of Democratic leaders to continue supporting policies and military assistance to Israel while Palestinians, including thousands of children, have been killed in Gaza.
We watched Hakeem Jeffries, the Democratic House leader and a leading contender for Speaker, repeat his unwavering support for Israel with statements along the lines of "Israel today, Israel tomorrow," while American tax dollars continued flowing toward military assistance.
And to make matters worse, when asked whether he would pursue accountability for actions taken by the Trump administration, Jeffries suggested that Americans weren't interested in that.
LIKE HELL WE AREN'T!
So what did we do?
We organized. We gathered more than a million signatures in an effort to prevent Jeffries from becoming Speaker. We put pressure on Democratic leadership. We demanded change from Chuck Schumer and the establishment.
And what did they do?
They played in our faces and made it clear that they weren't interested in changing course.
It's the same dysfunction you see in a family dealing with a narcissistic relationship. Everyone recognizes the abuse, everyone talks about it behind closed doors, but somehow everyone keeps protecting the person responsible.
For years, we've been told to grit our teeth and bear it. We've heard the same excuse over and over:
"This is not the time to support a third party."
Well, I say THIS IS EXACTLY THE TIME.
This is the time to organize, build something new, and consider breaking away from the Democratic Party establishment. And honestly, I hope Republicans begin questioning their own party structure, too.
Imagine a country with four viable political parties instead of two. Four parties that have to compete for the people's support. Four parties that create checks and balances through genuine political competition rather than forcing Americans to choose between two establishments that often put their own interests first.
It won't be easy. Breaking away from an abusive relationship never is. There will be growing pains, uncertainty, and plenty of people telling us we're making a mistake.
But we cannot continue confusing loyalty with progress. We cannot keep giving our allegiance to a political party simply because the alternative scares us.
At some point, we have to ask ourselves whether we're fighting for a party or fighting for the future of this country.
I don't want the next generation to spend their lives choosing the lesser of two evils. I want them to have choices. I want them to thrive. I want them to have political representation that actually reflects their values.
It's time to stop settling for breadcrumbs. It's time to stop making excuses. It's time to stop protecting a relationship that isn't working.
LET'S LEAVE.
And let's build something better.
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